We settle for so-so ….
We settle for so-so sex because most of us don’t know how sexual we could be; we know only how sexual we are. How sexual we are has been shaped by decades of indoctrination by… family and friends, teachers, religious leaders, and romantic partners, not to mention a society that worships a bewildering fusion of childlike sexual innocence and cynical, nihilistic hedonism…. So what is normal? It all depends on what’s normal for you.
~ Anita H. Clayton, Satisfaction: Women, Sex, and the Quest for Intimacy
~ Anita H. Clayton, Satisfaction: Women, Sex, and the Quest for Intimacy